Having a great anecdote to tell isn’t enough to get your congregation in fits of laughter; you also need good storytelling delivery.
Communication experts say that 90 percent of communication is non-verbal and only 10 percent is the words you say. Most of that non-verbal communication is through facial expressions.
Don’t get me wrong, it is important to tell the anecdote in a logical order and it is real important to have the punchline memorized, but don’t forget to use facial cues to signal to your congregation that it is time for them to laugh.
It can be hard to fake some facial expressions without looking insincere, but you can use some tricks to improve your overall non-verbal delivery.
Smile.
A smile is a universal symbol of joy and happiness throughout the world. Place a sincere smile when delivering your anecdotes. This simple technique can make a big difference.
Projection.
The rule in Stage Theater is: When you feel it; they will feel it. And when you see it; they will see it. Have a belief in your mind that an anecdote will go over well and it will transfer over to your congregation.
Be Comfortable.
If you can relax when telling anecdotes, it allows your facial expressions to be natural, more expressive - and not deadpanned. Having deadpanned (non-verbal or verbal) delivery will usually rob the anecdote from most laughter.
Fake It.
I said earlier that it can be hard to fake feelings without looking insincere; however, if you are feeling too nervous when telling an anecdote than it is helpful to go into ‘fake mode.’ Act like you’re your favorite stand-up comedian or actor when telling the anecdote, this can reduce your nervousness. I have a friend who is in recovery, and he tells me that there’s a slogan in AA: Fake it till you make it.
It is important to have good, funny material to use, but don’t forget that your delivery can make the difference between a good laugh versus a great one. Remember 90 percent of communication is non-verbal.
